Couples Counseling

Do You Want to Re-Establish Your Connection?

You want your relationship to be your calm within the storm.

You want to feel like your partner has your back and that as a team you can weather life’s ups and downs. You want your relationship to feel like a refuge, a place for you to relax, unwind, play and recharge. You desperately want to feel like, when the shit hits the fan so to speak, you have your person. You also want to feel like when you disagree, you can do so respectfully. If you’re a parent, you want to feel like you’re in this crazy parenting thing together and that you’re not “screwing up” your kids. You want to draw upon your collective wisdom when you get caught in negative patterns.

You are frustrated with all of the conflict.

You just can’t seem to agree and argue about basics. You can feel a wedge between you. Or perhaps you never fight. Maybe in the beginning of your relationship this seemed great – like it meant that you were a perfect match, but now you’re having doubts. What are we avoiding by not fighting? You spend time with each other, but you still feel lonely and misunderstood. Issues never seem to get resolved and are swept under the rug. Or you feel deeply hurt by a major breach of trust in the relationship like an affair. You may not know how to have a healthy relationship because you didn’t see that kind of relationship in your families.

You want to be a team.

You want to feel like you’re a capable, resilient couple that has capacity to both enjoy each other and deal with life’s curve balls. You want to feel like you have a partner in crime – someone you can get into mischief with and someone who can support you. If you have children, you want to feel like you are a united and dependable team for them. You want to feel like you can reconnect and heal if there was a recent betrayal.

You want to grow in your relationship.

You are successful/driven people who care enough about each other to take the time to reflect and work on your relationship. You feel like you want get out of your negative cycle of communicating and reestablish yourselves as a team. You want to feel like you are growing and expanding in this relationship, not like you’re shrinking and getting smaller.

You can reconnect.

I not only want to help you reestablish your connection, but deepen it as well. I do this by offering you experiences that will facilitate this process. I ask couples to bring their true/authentic selves and show me how you are relating with one another. This gives me the opportunity to see where you get stuck as well as show me where there are opportunities for connection. I do not have a cookie cutter approach, so the interventions I make are specifically tailored to your relationship.

You want your relationship to be your calm within the storm.

You want to feel like your partner has your back and that as a team you can weather life’s ups and downs. You want your relationship to feel like a refuge, a place for you to relax, unwind, play and recharge. You desperately want to feel like, when the shit hits the fan so to speak, you have your person. You also want to feel like when you disagree, you can do so respectfully. If you’re a parent, you want to feel like you’re in this crazy parenting thing together and that you’re not “screwing up” your kids. You want to draw upon your collective wisdom when you get caught in negative patterns.

You are frustrated with all of the conflict.

You just can’t seem to agree and argue about basics. You can feel a wedge between you. Or perhaps you never fight. Maybe in the beginning of your relationship this seemed great – like it meant that you were a perfect match, but now you’re having doubts. What are we avoiding by not fighting? You spend time with each other, but you still feel lonely and misunderstood. Issues never seem to get resolved and are swept under the rug. Or you feel deeply hurt by a major breach of trust in the relationship like an affair. You may not know how to have a healthy relationship because you didn’t see that kind of relationship in your families.

You want to be a team.

You want to feel like you’re a capable, resilient couple that has capacity to both enjoy each other and deal with life’s curve balls. You want to feel like you have a partner in crime – someone you can get into mischief with and someone who can support you. If you have children, you want to feel like you are a united and dependable team for them. You want to feel like you can reconnect and heal if there was a recent betrayal.

You want to grow in your relationship.

You are successful/driven people who care enough about each other to take the time to reflect and work on your relationship. You feel like you want get out of your negative cycle of communicating and reestablish yourselves as a team. You want to feel like you are growing and expanding in this relationship, not like you’re shrinking and getting smaller.

You can reconnect.

I not only want to help you reestablish your connection, but deepen it as well. I do this by offering you experiences that will facilitate this process. I ask couples to bring their true/authentic selves and show me how you are relating with one another. This gives me the opportunity to see where you get stuck as well as show me where there are opportunities for connection. I do not have a cookie cutter approach, so the interventions I make are specifically tailored to your relationship.

Ready to connect with your wisdom and stop struggling?

Let's Connect!